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Excerpted from Seeker Small Groups by Garry Poole, used by permission
After observing hundreds of non-Christians take steps of faith in all kinds of settings, I've
concluded that seekers advance through five distinct phases of spiritual discovery – and
it's one of the most critical realizations I've encountered. If we can carefully and
adequately identify where our seeking friends are in their discovery process, we will gain
a much better understanding of how to best support and encourage them in their search
for truth.
Phase 1: Identification. Seekers identify what they believe.
This phase is where most seekers really begin their spiritual journey – by figuring out
where they stand and exactly what they believe. Here, non-Christians identify just what
it is they think about God, the meaning of life, death, the afterlife, and many other
spiritual issues. Generally speaking, seekers have rarely come to grips with what they
specifically believe about these important matters. So we serve our seeking friends well
when we ask questions to prompt them (and assist us) to define what they believe. Some
examples of Phase 1 questions include the following:
- What do you believe about God?
- Who do you think Jesus is?
- What do you suppose happens after we die?
- What's your assessment of the Bible?
Phase 2: Clarification. Seekers clarify why they believe what they do.
Next, non-Christians need to move one step beyond identifying what they believe to
clarifying why they hold those beliefs. Few seekers have taken the time to establish solid
reasons for what they believe – they are not naturally driven to defend their spiritual
viewpoints. Again, we demonstrate respect toward our seeking friends and family
members when we make the effort to genuinely understand the reasons behind their
beliefs. Phase 2 questions can include:
- Why do you believe there is no God?
- Help me understand why you think there is no life after this one?
- Give me your reasons for believing that all roads lead to God?
Phase 3: Exploration. Seekers explore alternative truth options.
Once seekers have put forth the effort to determine what and why they believe, they often
become dissatisfied with their current beliefs. This is an exciting step in their journeys
because they are at a place where they are ready and willing to seek after the truth.
However, this process can also be somewhat chaotic because at this juncture seekers are
usually left with more questions than answers – and more doubts than certainties. This
unsettling notion often causes an eye-opening awareness that there just might be more to
life than what they have experienced – and that something is missing. It's at this stage
that seekers become eager to explore other options, including biblical truth, and are most
open and receptive to hearing a clear presentation of the gospel. We wouldn't want to
miss this opportunity.
Phase 4: Evaluation. Seekers evaluate new discoveries.
At this point, seekers begin to earnestly assess the validity of their beliefs and wrestle
with the tough questions and objections they have about the claims of Christianity as well
as other faiths. More than at any other time, they are willing to make comparisons
between what they believe and what the Bible teaches – and determine which makes
more sense from an intellectual perspective. We should make ourselves available to join
them in this process and gently guide them toward biblical truths.
Phase 5: Decision. Seekers decide what to believe.
This stage in the process is very significant for non-Christians, because these crucial
decisions of acceptance and belief not only involve the mind, but also the heart and the
will. This is why most seekers draw conclusions about spiritual matters incrementally.
For example, after moving through each of the phases, a seeker may decide to accept the
existence of a personal God but then turn around and go back through the various phases
again before making other decisions about the authority of the Bible or the identity of
Jesus. It makes take a series of such decisions before he or she eventually makes a
commitment to receive and follow Christ.
Seekers make spiritual discoveries in stages, and we must look for ways to honor this
process as we reach out to them. Without a doubt, of course the Holy Spirit can intercede
at any moment in any phase and bring anyone to faith in Christ. But in general, our
outreach efforts should demonstrate respect for this spiritual discovery process.
In my view, the most effective strategy to helping seekers advance through these phases
and take steps of spiritual progress is something I've called "Empathic Evangelism."
It's a simple outreach concept that can be summarized in one short statement: Ask great
questions and listen well. |
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